rant

Why is it ALWAYS the eldest child who is ALWAYS in the wrong? Why do we ALWAYS get the lectures on being the responsible one, setting examples, blah, blah, blah? I think that at some point, like when the the youngest is 20+ years old and has a mind of his/her own, it's not ALWAYS the eldest who is in the wrong and is to blame for EVERY argument. It's mentally and emotionally tiring being the villain in EVERY story, especially when it's unwarranted.