Does anyone have a do not date list? ie. qualities that if the person who is asking you out possesses which would be a total turn off, or a do not date.
Or does anyone have a front porch test, to see if the person they are currently dating fits in the image of your older self.
Some people think that having these standards makes you stand offish and full of yourself. But doesn't it just make it easier for the person you're looking for to fit the bill? Of course you don't tell them that a) they didn't make your lists and b) I don't have a b. haha